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5 Things You Should Know About Swinger Dating

If you’re a couple who are eager to open up your relationship and explore new things, hooking up with other couples interested in swinging might be exactly what you’re looking for! Swinger dating makes finding the right couple easy by giving you access to tons of local swingers who are looking for the same thing. In other words, it’s kind of swingers heaven! If you’re considering swinger dating, here are a few things you should consider.

1. Consent on both sides is key.

If you’re considering swinger dating, the first issue is that both of you have to consent to going on this journey as a couple. Ideally, both partners should be equally into it (when this isn’t the case, a couple will often try it once and then the less interested partner will say “never again.”) It’s really important that you discuss the possibility of swinging with your partner before anything happens. You both need to be comfortable with what’s going on. If you’re not comfortable, it’s OK to say no. Don’t feel like you have to do something that’s outside your personal boundaries just to please your partner.

2. Set ground rules.

Assuming you’re both interested, ground rules are key. What exactly do you want to do? What exactly can you tolerate your spouse doing? Couples happiest with swingers dating discuss all the what-ifs extensively beforehand. Be as specific as possible, and work to prevent freak-outs later on. For example, “I’m okay with you kissing a stranger, getting naked, and giving hand jobs, but not oral or intercourse.” By setting these kinds of ground rules you’ll not only benefit your relationship, it will also make the experience more enjoyable for both of you.

3. Spousal presence.

Many local swinger couples prefer to engage in same-room play so that they can keep an eye on each other. Other people feel more comfortable if they are in separate rooms so that there’s more privacy. Threesomes or foursomes are also extremely popular. Make sure you discuss with your partner what they feel most uncomfortable with and listen to their needs. If you decide to have group sex, make sure that everyone feels included.

4. Be sensitive to jealousy and establish a safe word.

The goal of swinger dating is to draw couples closer by spicing up their sex lives, not drive them apart. However, no matter how much you prepare mentally and emotionally, when one partners sees the other having naked fun with someone else, there’s always the chance that jealousy will happen. Be prepared for this and discuss it openly as a couple.

If you’re engaging in same-room play, establish a safe word that can be used as a “discomfort signal” when whatever is happening becomes too much. When the safe word is spoken, the other immediately stops everything and attends to the partner’s concern – no questions asked.

 

5. Communication is Key.

In order to make swinger dating work, communication is key. Communicate openly and listen to your partner’s needs. If you’re able to communicate successfully and work through issues as they arise, you’ll be able to get a lot more out of this experience while keeping your relationship strong.