Swingers and couples dating
By Lottie Williams, Head of Content
Updated
Plenty of people on No Strings Dating are in couples that like to play, or are single and happy to join one. Swingers and couples are welcome here: say what you are after, find people who want the same, and take it at a pace that suits all of you.
Couples welcome, not couples only
No Strings Dating is a casual dating site first, not a swingers site. Most members are single and want straightforward fun. Some are couples looking for a third, a couple to meet, or a lover for one of them with the other's blessing. Many singles are glad to hear from them.
That mix works in your favour. A couple on a couples-only site competes with every other couple for a handful of singles. Here, you meet open-minded people who have already said what they are up for, and nobody needs to explain themselves.
How it works on No Strings Dating
Every profile is one person. There are no joint couple profiles, so each partner sets up their own and says in the first line of their own words that they are part of a couple, and what the two of you are looking for.
Pick "Threesome" or "Group fun" in what you are up for, and set your Relationship setup to "Ethically non-monogamous" or "Partner knows". That answer only shows on your full profile, never on cards. The optional Kink and fantasy section adds Joining others, with "Happy to join a couple", "Unicorn", "Bull", "FFM", "MMF", "Group play" and "Hotwife / cuckold scenes", plus "Swingers clubs" under Clubs and events. Use what fits and leave the rest for chat.
Find your corner
Each has its own page, with how to find each other here and how to start well.
- Threesome dating: couples looking for a third, and singles happy to be one.
- Couples dating: couples meeting singles or other couples.
- Hotwife dating: the fantasy, done with care and full agreement.
- Open relationship dating: partners who each date on their own terms.
Read up first
Two of our guides do the heavy lifting. Finding a third covers agreements, etiquette and aftercare for threesomes. Swinging and open relationships explains the terms, jealousy, clubs and how to start small. Read them together, out loud if it helps.
Everyone knows, everyone agrees
Everything on these pages rests on one rule: every person involved knows and agrees, including any partner at home. If your partner does not know, this is not the page for you, and our affairs page is more honest about what that involves.
It is also dating, not a marketplace. Nobody here pays or is paid for company or sex, and advertising it breaks our rules. Every member is over 18 and has passed an age check, and whatever happens, happens in private, never anywhere the public could see.
Meeting safely
Meet for a drink somewhere public first, all of you, with nothing promised. Use Safety check-in to tell a friend where you will be, have your own way home, and keep the chat on the site until you trust everyone.
More people means more reason to look after your health: use condoms, agree what protection applies with everyone, and test regularly. Our sexual health guide and the Safety Centre list free, confidential services in every country we serve. Anyone can stop at any point, and you can close any chat with one tap.
Quick answers
Is No Strings Dating a swingers site?
No. It is a casual dating site where swingers and couples are welcome. You can say you are part of a couple, pick Threesome or Group fun, and meet people who want the same.
Can couples have a joint profile?
No. Every profile is one person. Each partner sets up their own and says in their own words that they are part of a couple.
Will people see that I am in a couple?
Only what you choose to show. Your Relationship setup appears on your full profile, never on cards, and anything else is up to you.
Do I need my partner's agreement?
Yes. Everything in this section depends on every person involved knowing and agreeing. If your partner does not know, read our affairs page instead.
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